• There is confidential help out there if and when you need it
• Take your time to re-establish the relationship
• Express your feelings and encourage your partner to do the same
• Set the mood at a time of day when you will have no distractions and when your partner is less fatigued
• Be comfortable with each other again by kissing and touching without necessarily expecting intercourse
• Be open and consider each others needs towards a warm and loving relationship

For confidential advice call the Chest Heart & Stroke Scotland Advice line on 0808 801 0899 (free phone from landlines and most mobiles during office hours 9.30 to 4.00) or read the following:

• CHSS Sex and Relationships after Stroke
• Relationships Scotland National office 0845 119 2020
• BASHH